28 Up was the first film in the series where I found myself feeling not just curious but excited to see what everyone has been up to so it really felt like a reunion. It helps that I've finally started retaining many of the names. I suppose it's easier to distinguish between adults than children.
After seeing them discover themselves in 21, the majority of participants have settled down and married in the intervening years. Indeed, most of these seem to have happened closer to 21 than 28. It's slightly ironic - and a little depressing - that after a very short time as adult individuals their lives have more similarities than ever. Not that I have anything against relationships and marriage for anyone at any age should they choose. I just find it surprising that the majority have married by their mid-twenties which I think represents the more conservative society of the time where there was perhaps more pressure or expectation to do so, and so less choice (and things have come back round. Marriage seems fashionable once again).
The Eighties fashions do little to help the conservative imagery, and the women look especially matronly with their tight perms and pleated skirts. I have thoroughly enjoyed seeing the cars on the streets, and sights like a Mark II Cavalier have helped this instalment to feel particularly modern compared with the previous one. We're now in an era that I have clearer memories of experiencing which helps me feel connected to it.
In some cases, the stability of this era is particularly touching. Paul and Symon in particular are flourishing in their new lives. It's so lovely to see both so settled and growing so much in confidence and happiness. Hearing about Paul's Western Australia road trip with his wife, one really got the sense of them as a loving couple who really support one another. It feels even more solid since I believe his wife is the same partner he had in 21. Meanwhile, Symon's grounded outlook is wonderful. Saying that he didn't care about money because he has everything he wants felt like the perfect rebuttal to Apsted's comments about his job in the previous film. And his comment that his children already had everything he didn't because they have a father was very poignant. He also called Apsted for repeatedly asking "does "x" worry you". And indeed, he seems among the most contented because he doesn't worry about those things he doesn't need to.
Nick's now working as a nuclear physicist in the States. I think back to Seven Up! where he'd barely set foot outside the Dales, saying he'd been to Leeds but hadn't made it as far as Manchester. Now he's globetrotting. It's incredible, and even more so because of the time when I'm sure it would have been far less commonplace for the average Brit to travel to America. Again, his sense of ease really shone from the screen. His wife didn't come across in a flattering light at all. She seemed to have far more to say than Nick and at times seemed to bulldoze all over him with her vociferous opinion about everything under the sun. I don't know if she was edited to look worse or better, or if this is a truthful picture.
Nick's wife felt like a stark contrast to the warm, relaxed support from other partners, and especially to nervous, quiet Rupert who has married Suzy, now every inch the conservative wife and mother. I love how self-contradictory Suzy is. She only appears in 14 because her parents forced her, but happily returned for 21 where she said she was cynical about marriage and relationships and didn't want that for herself. Then we find out that she married a year or so after making these comments. One thing I did pick up on was her comment that travel and meeting people has broadened her mind, which I like to think shows she's left her "I've never met a coloured person and I hope I never do" attitude far behind her. It's also a little touching to hear her admit that she hated pre-preparatory school and felt it negatively impacted her, since that's where we first met her. Her modest country pile on the outskirts of Bath does make it that much more difficult to relate to her (in fact it's a little sickening that a 28 year old can live this way after dropping out of school at 16 and taking some time out in Paris) but it's fascinating all the same.
It's disappointing not to see John and Charles. I had read about one of the participants dropping out for good, which I now understand to be Charles. I'm sad about this because he was one of the more intriguing 21-ers due to veering away from his chosen path. Apart from finding him likeable, I really wanted to see who he became and how his choices impacted his life for better or worse. John is the most surprising absentee since he's the one who has consistently seemed very at home in the TV medium. He certainly spoke very articulately and was certainly a character. I'm hoping he'll return for a future instalment.
Their absence has been a nice opportunity to get to know Andrew a little better. Post Seven Up! he'd stood out to me less, slightly cancelled out by the more vocal Charles, and the non-conformist John. He does come across as a very nice guy.
Jackie and her friends feel among the most level headed of the group. They've got their work/home/social balance and seem to retain good connections. There's little to say about them other than it's always good to catch up with them.
Tony is the other constant. He's just always Tony and still recognisable from the "monkey" in Seven Up!. He's grown into an archetypal East End cheeky chappie cabbie, and the wife and kids haven't changed that at all. There's still all the banter and self-promotion. This time round, there's bad acting thrown into the mix. "He's a terrible actor" says his coach, and it's easy to understand why. Tony shines on camera when he's being interviewed, but because he's never anything other than Tony in any situation, it's going to be almost impossible for him to be someone else. I do wonder how his daughter will feel if she ever watches 21 and hears him express his desire for a "baby son" as the only thing he wants.
Peter has been a quiet part of this series for me. Always engaging, but never showy. He's seemed overshadowed by more forceful characters at times but is emerging as someone who has quietly moved his life forward in a very constructive way. Given his comments in 21 about the atmosphere in Neil's home and the pressure on Neil from his parents being teachers it's a little surprising to find he's now teaching. Peter made some of the most politically edgy comments in 28, possibly shooting his budding career in the foot by commenting that most of what kids learn at school is useless and criticising Thatcher's nasty Government. I'd like to have heard more about this from other participants, but I suppose the Thatcher influence is evident in other ways.
Bruce became a favourite in 21 and I continue to applaud him in 28. I love that he walks the walk when it comes to following up his beliefs, by living a life that has meaning for him. His choice to teach at Tony's old East End school feels very powerful because it is a choice. It's so good to see the ease with which he speaks to the kids in his class. His path makes me suspect he's been profoundly influenced by the impact of the children's meeting in Seven Up!
Neil's section seemed to be the longest at close to half an hour, and deservedly so. If any of the participants would warrant their own spin-off it's Neil. His journey has been a very powerful and unexpected one. The happy, middle class child in Seven Up! effectively opting out of life, living in squats and hitchhiking to remote parts of the UK in order to get away from people as much as possible (I'm fairly sure this is the first time we've visited a UK nation outside of England, and the Western Scottish Highlands look absolutely stunning here and make the higher definition Blu-ray worth the investment). His mental health struggles, implicit in 21 are to a degree voiced aloud in 28. Shaking and rocking as he speaks, we hear about his erratic moods and the flare-ups of his temper for reasons not evident to those around him. He tells us he's seen doctors but hasn't received treatment, leaving me to think he's either been misdiagnosed, given the wrong treatment or simply refused treatment. As he said, sick people want to get as far away from doctors as possible and it seems he most values the occasional kindness from a random stranger. He's the participant I feel most worried about, because he seems so isolated... as though he's been failed by the world. I really hope good things come his way and I'm a little nervous to know how he'll be in 35 Up.