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Message: <blockquote data-quote="James from London" data-source="post: 231973" data-attributes="member: 22">Would Kathy Beale having a go at Dot for wanting to put on a boring old panto one Christmas and then getting all excited cos she'd got tickets to see Nigel Havers in panto the next Christmas count?I think that's very common. Most of us don't carry our entire history around in our heads at all times; we react emotionally, in the moment (and characters in soaps even more so!). I was told a long time ago when someone upsets you or gets under your skin, it's nearly always because there's something in their behaviour that reminds you of your own. And most of the time I've found that to be true.</blockquote>