The billing for the title sequence of ...And Mother Makes Three is quite intriguing.
For the first three series, the first credit was "With Valerie Lush" (a curious choice of phrasing. I'd associate a "with" credit as belonging near the end). Then the two boys were credited and finally there's "and starring Wendy Craig".
I can't help wondering why Wendy and Val's credits weren't the other way round. No doubt some kind of contractual thing I suppose. When watching the credits in full, it does suggest that Valerie and the two boys are all "with"s and therefore secondary to Wendy, which is perhaps as intended.
A further anomaly has been thrown into the mix with the arrival of the David Redway character. For the third series, Richard Coleman's credit was shown after the main titles with a "Featuring..." credit underneath the episode title.
For the final season, Richard has been added to the title sequence as the first credited "With Richard Coleman". Then come the two boys, followed by "Featuring Valerie Lush" before the final "and starring Wendy Craig". To be a fly on the wall when this was being planned out could have proved interesting.
As well as paving the way for the sequel series, the credits reflect the ever-changing status that this series has come to be about. After a fairly static first two series, the latter two have seen things expand fairly organically with the gradual introduction of the new elements. It hasn't been rebooted, nor has it changed its outlook per se. It's simply embraced the new as something that happens in life. On that level, AMM3 feels more like a soap opera than a sitcom.
The introduction of Sally's parents and David's mother has brought a nice new energy. So far they've only appeared in two Third Series episodes, but I hope to see more of them as the wedding approaches.
David's daughter, Jane appeared in one episode and, in quite a brave move, Sally and Auntie were horrified by a photograph her. According to Auntie, "hasn't inherited her father's good looks", and we encountered a harshly critical and shallow side to familiar characters:
AUNTIE: "It's quite a sweet face."
SALLY: "Yes, it is quite sweet really, isn't it?"
AUNTIE: "It's a tiny bit, um..."
SALLY: "Bird-like."
AUNTIE: "A bit like a chicken, yes."
SALLY: "A very good looking chicken, though."
AUNTIE: "...No, no, I'm wrong, Sally. I take that back."
SALLY: "Not like a chicken?"
AUNTIE: "No. More a turkey."
I was expecting this to turn out to be a photo of someone else, but nope. The little girl the whole family had trashed and laughed over was the girl in the photo.
The budding relationship has given the show opportunities to explore romance. And with one a widow, the other a divorcee with titled parents, and both having children there's plenty of scope for exploration. Proposals; engagement parties in-laws and wedding plans. In many ways it's quite a different series to the one I started watching. And yet not.
There's even been a Dynasty-esque moment where Sally dressed up to meet David's ex-wife only to discover they're wearing the same dress.
Attitudes of the times are quite fascinating and have highlighted Sally's conservatism in particular, with a dash of selfishness and hypocrisy thrown in. The boys are all for Sally and David living together ("why bother to get married?"). Sally is horrified by the prospect, but is more than happy to accept a proposal of marriage from a man she's known for little more than a month. She's horrified, too, when she finds out David is an atheist. Not out of concern for his mortal soul, mind you. She's worried because now it will be even more difficult for her to persuade the boys to go to church when they don't want to. But she's also selectively conservative. When David assumes they would have a Register Office wedding as he's divorced, it's the second marriage for them both, and they're both "of a certain age", she fights him all the way because she never got to have a church wedding the first time round. Sally is a mass of contradictions, changing on a whim as benefits her. And yet she also rings true as a very real person. If there's one thing guaranteed to bring out conservative traditionalists in people who claim to be liberal and vice versa, it's a wedding.
One piece of (almost) foreshadowing in the final episode of Series Three had me way too excited. The timing of the symbolism was quite uncanny too. There's a scene where Sally wears her engagement ring for the first time for lunch with David after choosing it. Almost immediately she begins to have doubts about the relationship. On the bare brick wall of the restaurant behind Sally - framing her and surrounding her - are a number of wooden frames. Each contains mounted butterflies!