Maude And The Radical / The Ticket / Love And Marriage / Flashback / Maude’s Dilemma Pt. I & II
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Happily, as the series progresses there isn’t a single character I don’t enjoy. The entire ensemble works for me.
As Florida, Esther Rolle has potential to steal scenes and she sometimes does, but the writing keeps her right sized and leaves me wanting more. I find myself looking forward to her scenes and I hope this continues.
Adrienne Barbeau works nicely with everyone and feels entirely believable. Every once in a while she’ll get a scene that shows how much she gets it. The close-up of her face at the end of
Love & Marriage as our only clue she was about to make a life changing decision is one of the strongest so far.
Like Florida, Arthur is given just enough to do. Conrad Bain helps sell that he gets on with both Maude and Walter for very different reasons, and Arthur has actually proved a nice confidante for Walter during some key moments. His impression of
The Little Engine That Could, by the way, got a big laugh from me.
Walter - the one I was least sure about to begin with - frequently gets unexpectedly big laughs. The one that did it in
Flashback was his admission that his $200 suit was in fact only worth $75:
It’s the kind of line where delivery is everything, and Bill Macy makes it hilarious.
And then along comes Vivian. It’s wonderful to see Rue McClanahan, and very strange to me to hear her speak in something other than her Southern Belle accent. She had a great moment in one of her first scenes where she imitated how Carol spoke as a child while going round the houses to explain that Maude was pregnant.
All of which means I’ve reached
that two-parter. The episodes for which the series is remembered and the only entry in the series to have its very own Wikipedia page.
Approaching it with some degree of awareness of its trajectory, there’s quite a lot riding on this story. As I mentioned yesterday, I felt a little excited about watching. This became a low key anxiety as the time came to sit down and watch. Just as I would feel when watching a classic film that’s renowned as a masterpiece. I felt I was about to meet a legend.
The premise of
Maude’s Dilemma put me in mind of a couple of of 1980s dramas.
The mid-life pregnancy and the decision over whether or not to keep the baby evoked Karen’s similar situation in
Knots Landing. As watchable and well-executed as the
Knots episode was, I’ve always felt the miscarriage “resolution” too much of a cop-out on the writers’ part: a way to have their cake and eat it by exploring the subject and then resetting things, absolving both characters and writer of any responsibility (Donna’s Down’s pregnancy on
Dallas was an even more blatant example of this. It seems almost bizarre that it was a half hour sitcom that didn’t take the easy way out for characters or writers.
Meanwhile, Walter’s non-vasectomy played out almost in reverse in 1985 episodes of Brookside I’ve been watching just this month.
In
Maude, Walter couldn’t bring himself to tell his liberal wife who didn’t want another baby he hadn’t had the vasectomy.
Over in
Brookside, socialist Bobby swallowed his pride and went private in order to have a vasectomy without his staunchly Roman Catholic wife Sheila finding out (Sheila had just had her own mid-life baby and was terrified of getting pregnant again but even more terrified of incurring the wrath of God for using contraception, which meant many months of sexual deprivation for them both). Then he didn’t tell his wife he’d had the vasectomy (until she accidentally whacked him in the groin with a stepladder and he kind of had to).
Each was fascinating in its own way. And perhaps Walter’s cop out allowed these episodes, too, to retain a sense of the traditional sitcom end-of-episode reset to comfort viewers. And that was about as comfortable as it got, because there’s no mistaking that here is where the series backs itself and says something important.
Interesting to me was the initial response of the “live audience” (as the voiceover at the end always comically calls them). Knowing where this story was going, it felt almost horrifying when Maude telling Vivian she was pregnant was met with gales of laughter from the audience that went on for some time. To me, that really gives an idea of how unexpected this arc would have been at the time. Sitcom audiences were conditioned for the setup/punchline/laugh/reset kind of storytelling.
I’m a non-American who wasn’t born at the time this episode aired, so I don’t have an experiential understanding of the time and place. However, I do know that abortion had only just been made legal in New York (as mentioned in the story) and that this came shortly before a landmark legal case that had an impact on the legalisation of termination in many other states (though it’s shocking that abortion is banned in thirteen states in 2024).
In practical terms, I suspect that it would have been considered that this subject had potential to affect revenue if sponsors were put off by the risk of (or actual) pearl clutching. It seems there
was, predictably, a somewhat successful campaign from Catholic groups to bury repeat screenings, which makes the episode’s existence feel even more incredible.
The biggest surprise for me was how funny I found these episodes. For me, the gags seemed funnier than usual and I’m not sure whether this is because they were funnier lines or because they provided a necessary outlet to contrast with the gravity of the subject matter; or simply because that contrast gave a balance that highlighted how funny they were. Whichever combination of these (and other) possibilities, the bottom line is that it did what any good sitcom should do and kept me laughing.
Despite Maude and Walter clearly taking their difficult decisions seriously, the episode overall didn’t feel off-puttingly heavy or preachy (though I say this having watched knowing the outcome). I found it as watchable and re-watchable as any of the other episodes. The balance was perfect. It makes me wonder how many of those who cried to abort this inconvenient episode actually watched it. But perhaps its innocuous accessibility is exactly why the same people found it so threatening.
I can understand that it’s an emotive subject about which many hold strong views and mileage will vary on the episode’s efficacy based one’s viewpoint, but the facts that the storytelling was put first and that this went ahead in 1972 America are decisions I can only applaud.
Putting controversy and subject matter aside, this ultimately feels like a traditional sitcom about miscommunication causing problems for a couple. If there's any kind of message at all, it's probably that honest discussion with an open mind and heart usually helps. Which seems reasonable enough to me.