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Having read your review of 28 Up I think this was the first episode I watched.
Interesting. This was the episode where I felt most of their life paths took on quite a similarity with marriage and settling down. Of course, they were still very different, but perhaps the oil and water element was a bit less noticeable as they mellowed a little. I'm sure the recaps of older films were essential to get the bigger picture.
What first fascinated me about it was how interesting it was to see ordinary people living what was in most cases just ordinary lives.
The series is a bit like a cross between a soap opera and a reality show before reality shows were a thing.
Very true. Especially when the first four or five aired. I think my first awareness of fly on the wall type reality series with soapy elements came with The Marriage, and that was two years after 28 aired.
Of course, more recently, I've caught up with older reality series. Not least 1974's The Family which I loved and chatted about quite a bit at the time I watched. And now the Ups.
He always seemed very comfortable chatting on camera, in fact he seemed to relish the limelight.
Oh, didn't he just. Always ready with a sound bite ready pearl of wisdom.
He also is brutally honest and open and quite happy to discuss any aspect of his life which makes him so captivating to watch.
It's strange that Tony, who was perhaps one of the wildest and unpredictable of the kids, is actually one of the stabilising elements of the series because he's so authentic and quite unchanging. He's still a bit wild, of course, but he's also pretty predictable and that's why it's a treat to catch up with him.
While most of the participants at this stage were conforming to societal norms and expectations, (in work, marriage, children, divorce, etc.) Neil's life was the most unpredictable and from purely an entertainment point of view, the most engrossing to watch. Seeing him homeless after seeing clips of him in earlier episodes was shocking and his mental state seemed fragile and deteriorating. I remember at the front feeling worried for him and was genuinely concerned if he would survive to participate in the next update.
That's how I'm feeling at the moment. More than any of the other participants I feel I'm rooting for Neil because he's the only one not rooting for himself.
What I do like about the series is how some characters declined to take part in a particular year but later agreed to participate in a future programme. It's a bit like a relative or a friend that you lose touch with over time and later your paths cross and you have a big catch up session.
Yes, I had that experience with John. He missed 28, then seeing him in 35 felt a bit more exciting because there was more to catch up on. And now he's declined to appear in 42. I hope we catch up with him a bit later in life, and it would be nice to see him reunited with Andrew (Charles being there would be even better, but it seems there's little to no chance of that happening, sadly).