I totally agree with you in both points. I wanted to see Bobby have a catharsis in which he totally let everything out about Pamela- his frustration and anger at her leaving the way she did, and, most of all, his love for her. There was a point where, of I'm remembering correctly, where he kept referring to her as "Christopher's mother," in front of Sue Ellen. I wanted Sue Ellen to correct him and say, "Pam. Her nane is Pam." An argument between them would have ensued where they both broke down and cried. Sue Ellen never mourned Pam, which has always bothered me.
Regarding Katherine, I wanted her to be alive and using Pam's identity. I also wanted her behind Pam's original disappearance in the first place.:eck: