Next up... a series I'd never seen or heard of until recently.
With watching
After Henry recently, Joan Sanderson was the draw for me here.
This is not the kind of series I'd be drawn to under most circumstances. I've never seen
Love Thy Neighbour, nor have I particularly wanted to, because of the awkwardly dated "them and us" viewpoint around race. I can't help feeling that for every moment of progress, there will be half a dozen cheap "jokes" with a racist undercurrent.
Still, since something about this series spoke to me, I couldn't help wondering how it would be to view this scenario through the prism of a forty year old ITV sitcom. And to view it "cold" - that is, without the fuzzy nostalgic filter that may have existed had I been familiar with it from childhood.
The blurb on the DVD describes the series as "popular and - for its time - provocative". I'm not sure about the popularity. I'd have been very young when the series first aired. No doubt I was tucked up in bed when the first episodes aired. All the same, there's nothing about the title that rings a bell on any level. I'm aware of other series that were airing at this time, and a number from before my time, but I can find little to suggest that
Mixed Blessings made any kind of impact on the TV landscape.
As for the "provocative" angle. Well, let's face it, it's probably far more provocative today than it would have been at the time. All the same, a look at goings on in the UK around the time that the series started proved quite telling.
A month or so before the series began, our future prime minister - then leader of the opposition - appeared on
World In Action and made the following ugly observation:
People are really rather afraid that this country might be rather swamped by people with a different culture
Quite what Margaret Thatcher would have made of a sitcom featuring a mixed-race marriage one can only guess. Though the comment above would help one to guess fairly accurately.
Maybe the timing was pretty bold after all.
What's interesting to consider, though, is that Thatcher was inundated with praise and thank you letters for her comments as the pendulum swung to the right and the Conservatives - becoming more and more overtly right wing - gained in popularity from those who feared change, progression and integration and craved the halcyon days of their childhoods. Plus ça change, eh?!
In
actually progressive events, ITV's
News At Ten had gained its first female newscaster a fortnight or so before the debut of the series.
Whether Conservatives (both small "c "and big) viewed
Mixed Blessings as a further threat isn't fully clear. I'd hazard a guess that
Grange Hill may have been more threatening to them (that series had begun less than a month earlier and, without fanfare or fuss, featured a black actor in a lead role). Part of me feels the comfortingly dated humour around race in
Mixed Blessings would actually appeal to a conservative audience. And that's where the series' Achilles' heel seems to lie. The premise of a hip young married couple who happen to be from different ethnic heritages may seem groundbreaking, but the writing lets the series down greatly. The fact remains that it's produced, directed and written by middle aged white men. And it shows. Regardless of any possible good intentions.
The white parents are shown to be uptight, awkward and - in the case of the father - bumbling and intransigent. They are your stereotypical WASPS. But for all this, there's a sense that the series is written from a white point of view. Of them treading carefully and trying - without success - not to say the wrong thing (a little bit like The Germans coming to
Fawlty Towers, but without any cathartic sense of climax).
Not that I'm keeping count, but the humour that's overtly around race comes from the white family's stereotypes around black people and not the other way round. Some of the "gags" have been just dire. Tony Osoba appeared as a tradesman in one episode and was actually offered a banana by the white mother at which point I found myself inhaling air in horror.
I'm very curious about the live audience of such scenes. Is the laugh one of ignorance? Laughing at things that are unfamiliar or "other" (it's a safe bet that at least 98% of the studio audience would be white). Or is there something else to it?
Is the laugh one of discomfort? In other words is the scene challenging the viewer in some way?
There are further stereotypes within the black family. In particular, the father is coming across as the angry black man in these initial episodes. Not only outraged that his daughter has married a white man, but on his feet and shouting with every perceived slight from his in laws.
There are, though, some saving graces that are making this an enjoyable series to discover. Not least the wonderful cast.
Joan Sanderson as Aunt Dorothy is, as always, extremely watchable here. Against my expectations, her character has proved to be one of the more accepting onscreen. She was the first to warmly welcome her nephew's new bride to the family while his parents were busy dropping crockery and inserting their feet into their mouths, and she's continued to be one of the voices of reason that diffuses the rather more insane responses around her. It's kind of the
Coronation Street approach, I think. The character one would expect to be the most conservative doesn't bat an eye, and hopefully it will set an example to her peers in the audience. It's quaintly simple, but simply quaint.
Muriel Odunton as Susan is lovely. She's vibrant and likeable. Other than seeing her on a
Whodunnit? recently, I don't believe I'm familiar with her. When considering buying the DVD, I did some searching around the series and found
this obituary from last year which tells of a fascinating and rich life (and it's none too surprising to find that she grew frustrated with the series' writing). It's all still there at the back of my mind when viewing her scenes.
Christopher Blake as Thomas is fine. I know him primarily from his later work on
That's My Boy, and he comes across as more relaxed and less stuffy in this earlier series. Seeing him sprawled on a sofa with flared jeans and a snug t-shirt saying "University Of Sussex", but with the a strike through the "Sus" will do that.
It was a really nice surprise to see George Waring on hand as Thomas's dad. He's best known to me from the
Corrie DVDs as Emily's bigamist husband, Arnold Swain, and the couple of episodes of his I've seen left me with a big impression. Being able to do comedy as well as drama is no small thing for an actor, and he works brilliantly here, spinning gold from the sometimes less than substantial material he has to work with.
The mums of the piece, too, are gems. Carmen Munro seems very familiar to me, but there's nothing on her IMDb filmography that jumps out at me as the reason. Her character is gracious and elegant, but I also love the bite that comes out when pulling her husband into line, which gives her a touch of the Mildred Ropers.
Sylvia Kay also has that familiar air, but in a "stock character actor" kind of way. It's as though I could have seen her in any number of small roles here and there, and that air brings a nice grounded feel to her.
Four episodes in, and I'm sharing the hope that Susan and Thomas have for their families. I'm not expecting greatness, but there's still the hope that the series will get past its self-consciousness over the premise and get down to the business of being a sitcom. It's on the way to doing it, as proved by scenarios such as the parents' competitively deluging the couple with new furniture. If we can get to this simply being a half decent LWT sitcom, then the
real progress will happen.