I loved it when Ellie was like Victoria Barkley and hated it when the writers ruined it by having her remarry.
I don't think Miss Ellie was ever like Victoria Barkley
Victoria was strong, tough-minded and authoritative, yet also a loving mother to ALL her children, including her husband's son, Heath.
She was also compassionate, supportive and ethical.
Miss Ellie was only 'strong' when she had Jock or Clayton.
Unlike Miss Ellie, Victoria Barkley didn't whine whenever the family business had issues. She stood with the family,
instead of trying to sell the business (twice)
Victoria Barkley led a ranch of 3 alpha males with strength,wisdom and kindness.
Victoria Barkley was also respectful and loyal to her husband's legacy
She never would have attempted to sell her husband's company or give away half of his property to
another man. depriving their sons of their inheritance if she predeceased her spouse.
Or give away all his property to a long-lost relative who never worked that property.
The great Barbara Stanwyck is still the greatest matriarch ever.