And S10 makes Bobby look like a cad in the way dumps Jenna and Charlie. It made no sense that Charlie was never Ewing. And Ray being a sexist pig about Donna's career move always felt very dated and out of step. I guess that was still a thing in the '80s, but it made Ray look like a massive doucher.
And why is Sue Ellen still angry? Her talking with Paramalee and enjoying how he irritates JR is worse than anything he ever did to her.
I understand what you are saying about Ray.
However, I think it was a realistic reaction, in the context of the show.
Ray did not have the business savvy of JR and Bobby.
Donna was successful in many endeavors.
It would be realistic that Ray would have resentments, and frustration.
Bobby - I wanted him to marry Jenna.
It could have led to stories with Pam undergoing drastic changes in personality, and maybe VP would have stayed, with better scripts.
JR and Sue Ellen - couldn't function with each other, couldn't function without each other LOL
Linda Gray's departure was a major factor in the (further) decline in seasons 13 and 14